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Easter Worship Service

Please join us for our in-person Easter Worship Service on Sunday, April 4th at 10:00a.m.  All are welcome!  Masks, social distancing, and touchless temperature are mandatory.  Families can sit together.

We’ll conclude our Lenten/Easter series Crossroads. The service will be uploaded to our YouTube channel on Monday, April 5th. Questions?  Please call our church office M-TH at 804-642-2110 or email bethanyumc3@verizon.net.

Sunday / April 4 / 10:00am

How the CARES ACT Will Impact You

Article from Virginia United Methodist Foundation

The CARES Act passed in late March 2020.  This was the federal government’s initial relief package which included $2.3 trillion worth of provisions to help mitigate the impact of the pandemic.  It was intended to help 90% of the U.S. population.

Breakdown of the some of the CARES Act provisions:

  • The CARES Act suspends the required minimum distributions (RMDs) for 2020. This includes anyone who turned 70 1/2 in 2019 who were supposed to take their first RMD by April 1, 2020. This change applies to both the owners of the retirement account and beneficiaries who inherited the account taking a Stretch distribution.
  • If anyone has already taken their RMD, there’s a 60-day rollover rule allowing them to reinvest it in the account.
  • The Act also suspended payments and interest on federal student loans until January 2021.
  • The CARES Act allows individuals to pull up to $100,000 from their vested retirement accounts as either a penalty-free disbursement or a loan to pay for expenses and disrupted income related to the pandemic. The distribution can be taken over a three-year period. You have to pay taxes on it or you have to pay it back, but you’re given three years to pay it back.

Charitable Changes from the CARES Act:

  • The new legislation allows up to $300 given to a qualified charity to be claimed as an above-the-line deduction. This is a permanent change that’s available to taxpayers who don’t itemize their deductions.
  • The CARES Act also effectively suspends the limit on individual taxpayers’ deductions from cash contributions to public charities for 2020. Prior to the Act, individuals could only deduct up to 60% of their annual gross income (AGI). That limit has been raised to 100%.  The deduction is only for donations to qualified charities.

To take advantage of the CARES Act changes, the charitable donations have to be in cash, not in a donor advised fund or in stock. Individuals whose cost basis on marketable securities is less than current market value may prefer to sell themselves and capture the loss, donating the net proceeds in cash.

The CARES Act may have subsequent changes, as legislative action on COVID-19 relief is reconsidered. The staff at the Virginia United Methodist Foundation are not tax advisors, but we hope this information will help you as you think about your 2020 tax situation.  Our churches need your help this year, and we hope you will consider carefully what you can give and have given to your church.

Authors: Tommy Herndon, Bo Bowden

Healthy Church Team Announcement (9/28/20)

Bethany Family and Friends,

    The Healthy Church Team met yesterday after worship to review our first six Sundays of returning to in-person worship in the sanctuary.  We are glad to see a good spirit in our worship, see familiar faces and greet seven worship guests, and consecrate Liam and Scott McClellan as acolytes. We’ve been encouraged by the preaching, the music, the pre-recorded anthems via video, our times of prayer and being together. We’ve been inspired to see pictures about a recent mission trip to McClure VA.  We’ve had 100% cooperation with mask wearing, social distancing, and health assessment and we’ve not had turn anyone away or deny anyone entrance.  No Sunday School classes have met on-site during these first six weeks. We think all things have gone very well. 

     After discussion, we decided unanimously that we should continue with one 10:00a.m. worship service through October.  We will continue to review each Sunday.  We will evaluate again after the October 25th service and decide about services for November, Advent, Christmas Eve and Epiphany at the October 25th review. 

     We will abide with our Bishop’s mandatory guidelines and our Virginia Conference Technical Assistance Manual (TAM).  Also, we will review all suggestions for creative ways to worship, programming our church’s ministries, and staying connected as a church family during this pandemic. 

     We are able to host committee meetings and community groups on site and have in-person Sunday School.  Mask wearing, social distancing, and health assessment are health and safety measures and still in effect for all of us.

     We appreciate the Callers on our Congregational Care Phone Tree sharing this news with folks who do not have Internet or email.

     Thank you from all of us to all of you for your thoughts, prayers and support as we seek to guide our church through these unusual times.  If you have any questions, please contact Pastor Mike Derflinger at 540-631-4469 or MikeDerflinger@vaumc.org, or Lay Leader Judy Burner at 804-413-8888 and aburner@cox.net.  God bless you!

For a copy of our phased reopening plan, please click here.

In order to keep the congregation safe and healthy, you will be required to respond to the health acknowledgement  below. 

In Christ,
Your Healthy Church Team
Jane Sterling, Laura Glaze, Milton Hudgins, Donna Andersen, Sandy Fox, Judy Burner, and Pastor Mike Derflinger   

 

Now and Then

I’ve been looking in the sky a lot lately.  I like the astronomical things.  We just passed Astronomy Day on May 2nd, and the final super moon of 2020 will be on Thursday, May 7th.  Since we live near a lot of natural lights it can be hard to see the meteor showers.  I’m not a die-hard watcher.  But I’ve been looking in the sky a lot lately.

 I read a story recently when Halley’s comet appeared almost a century ago in 1910.  Maybe you recall when it came around again back in 1986.  As the story goes, a small boy was with his father and mother and he saw it: Halley’s Comet.  It made a deep impression on him and he said, Wow, I want to see that it again.  His father said, “Well, it won’t happen.  Astronomers say it won’t return for 76 years and people don’t live that long.”  The little boy said he thought he would.  His first name was Norman.  His middle name was Vincent.  His last name was Peale.

Dr. Peale lived to be 95 and before he died, he did see Halley’s Comet come back again, but in all the years he wrote his books, preached at Marble Collegiate Church in New York City, and in his radio and TV appearances, every so often he would tell them about seeing Halley’s Comet when he was a little boy and what his father said, and he said to his parents:  I’m going to live long enough to see it come back again.  And his father said, “Well, that isn’t nearly so important as to what you believe God is going to do in your life between now and then.”

What is God going to do in your life between now (today) and then?  Whatever the then is to you.  It may be a week from now or a decade.  It may be after graduation. Or, when the stay-at-home order is lifted. What would you like God to do?  Ask God to help you.  May is the month of graduations.  The month to thank, love and remember Mothers.  The month to remember those who perished in wars so that we could even have the opportunity to have a life now and life later.  The month of Pentecost and the Holy Spirit being poured out. God can use anything to accomplish God’s purposes and often uses what’s around us.   — Pastor Mike

 

 

An Easter Poem to Encourage You

Photo Credit: Kirk Bell

 

Thought we’d share this poem, seen on Facebook, to encourage, uplift, and inspire you this Easter.  Enjoy!

How the Virus Stole Easter
By Kristi Bothur
With a nod to Dr. Seuss 😊

Twas late in ‘19 when the virus began
Bringing chaos and fear to all people, each land.
People were sick, hospitals full,
Doctors overwhelmed, no one in school.
As winter gave way to the promise of spring,
The virus raged on, touching peasant and king.
People hid in their homes from the enemy unseen.
They YouTubed and Zoomed, social-distanced, and cleaned.
April approached and churches were closed.
“There won’t be an Easter,” the world supposed.
“There won’t be church services, and egg hunts are out.
No reason for new dresses when we can’t go about.”
Holy Week started, as bleak as the rest.
The world was focused on masks and on tests.
“Easter can’t happen this year,” it proclaimed.
“Online and at home, it just won’t be the same.”
Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, the days came and went.
The virus pressed on; it just would not relent.
The world woke Sunday and nothing had changed.
The virus still menaced, the people, estranged.
“Pooh pooh to the saints,” the world was grumbling.
“They’re finding out now that no Easter is coming.
“They’re just waking up! We know just what they’ll do!
Their mouths will hang open a minute or two,
And then all the saints will all cry boo-hoo.
“That noise,” said the world, “will be something to hear.”
So it paused and the world put a hand to its ear.
And it did hear a sound coming through all the skies.
It started down low, then it started to rise.
But the sound wasn’t depressed.
Why, this sound was triumphant!
It couldn’t be so!
But it grew with abundance!
The world stared around, popping its eyes.
Then it shook! What it saw was a shocking surprise!
Every saint in every nation, the tall and the small,
Was celebrating Jesus in spite of it all!
It hadn’t stopped Easter from coming! It came!
Somehow or other, it came just the same!
And the world with its life quite stuck in quarantine
Stood puzzling and puzzling.
“Just how can it be?”
“It came without bonnets, it came without bunnies,
It came without egg hunts, cantatas, or money.”
Then the world thought of something it hadn’t before.
“Maybe Easter,” it thought, “doesn’t come from a store.
Maybe Easter, perhaps, means a little bit more.”
And what happened then?
Well….the story’s not done.
What will YOU do?
Will you share with that one
Or two or more people needing hope in this night?
Will you share the source of your life in this fight?
The churches are empty – but so is the tomb,
And Jesus is victor over death, doom, and gloom.
So this year at Easter, let this be our prayer,
As the virus still rages all around, everywhere.
May the world see hope when it looks at God’s people.
May the world see the church is not a building or steeple.
May the world find Faith in Jesus’ death and resurrection,
May the world find Joy in a time of dejection.
May 2020 be known as the year of survival,
But not only that –
Let it start a revival.

WORSHIP ONLINE WITH US!

Due to the coronavirus pandemic all in-person worship services and activities are canceled through early June.  Since we can’t meet in-person, we invite you to join us for online worship via our YouTube channel.  Services are recorded and uploaded weekly so that you can worship at a time that is convenient for you. 

If you miss a service, you can listen to previous messages, read the Sunday bulletin, or download our monthly newsletter by clicking HERE.   Even if you are on the go you can still be “in the know”!  

 

 

The Holy Spirit Brings Truth to our Minds

The Holy Spirit…will be your teacher and will bring to your minds all that I have said to you.  — John 14:26

Listen to and sing UMH 393 Spirit of the Living God.  Try UMH 331 Holy Spirit, Come Confirm Us with music by nationally noted United Methodist organist, choir director, and composer V. Earle Copes who was born in Norfolk VA.  Copes was a Consultant on the 1966 UMH and 1999 UMH. Then go to TFWS 2142 Blessed Quietness and for a treat, type in Progressive Church – Blessed Quietness on YouTube.  The audio is hard to hear but the pace, energy, and rhythm are perfect.

     I’ve learned that one way God speaks through us is ideas.  God gives you thoughts.  He gives you suggestions.  God puts impressions and notions in your mind.  All these are meant to build you up into the person God intends for you and for the Kingdom.  When the devil talks to you, that is temptation.  When God talks to you in your mind, we call that inspiration.
      The Holy Spirit is our Teacher and Counselor.  The Spirit is like a personal life coach and so much more.  I have had coaches, counselors, mentors, and ministry coaches in my life and I gauge them all by the Perfect Teacher and Counselor.  I’m constantly asking God, “What’s next, God?  Holy Spirit, what do you want me to do?”  That’s a dangerous question, because God will always have something for you to do.
       Notice it says bring to your minds. I understand that to mean the Holy Spirit speaks directly to your mind.  I have never in my life heard God speak in an audible voice.  I guess God doesn’t need to go through my ears though I have heard God’s truth and love from others.  He goes directly to my mind.  His Holy Spirit speaks to us deep in our hearts and tells us that we really are God’s children (Romans 8:16).
       I want to encourage you to stay in God’s word.  When you take the time to read, meditate, and fill your mind with God’s Word and God’s work, you are storing the truth and the story of the Trinity in your mind, and then the Holy Spirit can bring it to mind at just the right time.
       Our minds are filled with everything – constant updates on COVID-19 and the plethora of information on so many things.  Even every bad joke (which my kids always remind me).  It’s all in there.  You need to balance it with truth.  Then the Holy Spirit can bring God’s truth to mind, reveal that Blessed Quietness to you, and show you the way you should go.  Please know this:  Jesus is really here for you, for us.  He knows our need.  We really have access to a lot through the Holy Spirit. – Pastor Mike

 

Gutsy Love

Gutsy Love
 
Listen to and sing UMH 287 O Love Divine, What Hast Thou Done written by Charles Wesley, Methodist hymn writer extraordinaire and 18th child of Samuel and Susannah Wesley (whew!).  The tune SELENA was applied to this hymn by Isaac Woodbury 108 years later.   For a deeper understanding and appreciation for this hymn, click HERE.  For contemporary songs, try David Crowder Band’s How He Loves Us and Francesca Battistelli’s Beautiful, Beautiful.
     God is love – and through the life of Jesus we see that love in nonstop action.  Sometimes it’s calm and gentle, at other times it overturns temple tables in a rage, standing up for justice and reverence.
     Christ demonstrated His love for us at Golgotha.  As How Great Thou Art reminds us, “He bled and died to take away my sins.”  He told us we can’t love both God and mammon (an Aramaic word that means riches, wealth, and anything to which one lusts).  He reminded us that those who obey His two commandments are the ones who love Him (John 14:15-17).  These are not easy, sterile descriptions of a mild, lukewarm love.  They speak of a gutsy, willing-to-do-anything love, the same kind of love Jesus had for his disciples, for us and this world, and that took Him to the cross. 
     Jesus also taught us that those who have been forgiven much will love much (Luke 7:47).  Worship is a response to this gutsy love.  Meeting in-person is the ideal experience for worship and certainly what we are used to doing, but there are times when it isn’t possible because of work, travel, illness, caring for others or a pandemic.  I think that in these times it helps to have the whole picture of Christ’s heart and character:  the active, compassionate, tender, teaching, healing Christ, and also the sacrificial Christ who is suffering, dying, rising, ascending and reigning. 
     I am glad to hear that many of you are finding ways to worship online and support one another. Our President has extended the federal guidelines through April, so we are making plans to have all April Sunday services online, either in real time or tape delay.  We will send out an email letting you know is happening. Our Virginia Conference of The United Methodist Church is helping with resource lists.  Your ideas have been very helpful to me, too.
     These are times that will test our support for Bethany when we can’t be together in person, and for one another.  God will help us and see us through, but it will take a determined, stubborn, gutsy love to care for one another, be in community, and keep Bethany strong in love, in prayer, in ministry and financially.  With our online worship presence, we are “startin’ from scratch” in a hurry, and I take comfort in the fact that
     The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, God’s mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning, great is thy faithfulness. – Lamentations 3: 22,23.
     I ask you to join with me in the love that flows freely and absolutely from heart, mind, and soul in response to all we have received.  A consuming, gutsy offering of love and life made in reply to God who first loved us.    – Pastor Mike     
  

e-Giving at Bethany Now Includes Text-to-Give Option

Giving is an act of worship and makes possible the many ministries and missions of Bethany United Methodist Church.  As believers, we know that obedient giving glorifies God and meets the needs of many in our church, community, and the world.  As we give to meet the needs of others God will also supply everything we need (Luke 6:38, Philippians 4:19).

There are many ways to give at Bethany!  You can support the ministries and missions of our church by:

  • Praying for our church
  • Actively serving in our church
  • Providing financial support in a number of different ways:
    • Traditional giving by check 
    • Giving through the bill payment service of your bank
    • e-Giving options:
      1. Online giving through our website (click button below)
      2. Giving via  the mobile app (download from your device’s app store)
      3. Text-to-give —  Simply text the amount of your donation to 877-566-3409, then follow the prompt to set up your payment.  It’s quick and easy! You will receive a confirmation text and an emailed receipt acknowledging your gift.

 To donate online, click the button below:

Visit the App Store (for iPhones, Apple devices) or Google Play (for Android devices) to download the  mobile app.

Need technical help with online giving?  Call the church office at 804-642-2110 or email bethanyumc3@verizon.net.